original post written by Salome Oro. this is just a repost.
here it goes…
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PHILIPPINES: LAND THAT I LOVE
When I look at my own beloved country i have mixed emotions. I look at the wealth of natural resources and natural beauty and I gasp in wonder and awe, speechless at the creation of God: the beautiful smiles, the sun gold skin, the welcoming faces of islanders just waiting to please and to serve. But, on the other hand, my heart is filled with grief at how beneath the thick veneer of smiles and hospitality, there lies within a ‘wounded soul’. the soul of the Filipino has had to endure much pain, much conflicting emotions, much shame and rejection. And for most filipinos or for most ‘masa’ or the general public, in order to survive the beatings of the soul, they resort to putting on some ‘bandages’ just to cover up the real issues of the heart, which are many.
here are several common ‘bandages’ that i have observed some filipinos put on:
FUN – fun has become a national sickness. fun has replaced ‘seriousness’ or the ability to determine what is important and what is trivial. in the name of fun, we as a people, would like to mask our pain with parties, fiestas, beach outings and the perennial ‘hanging out’ syndrome. We value fun above morality, transparency and work. Some of us are always looking for the number of holidays we can take and we are excellent on fun more than we are on work.
JOKE, JOKE, JOKE – you know when a filipino is around because whatever is the situation we can always think of a joke to make it funny. no matter how serious the situation may be, we resort to laughing at everything under the heat of the sun even if it means ‘embarassment’ for the one who has to take the brunt of the joke. we make joke of national disasters, we make heroes of those who know how to make jokes even when it’s beyond acceptable, even when a person, a topic or a situation, or what have you, should be treated delicately and with much respect.
TITLE CONSCIOUS – some if not most filipinos are so title conscious; wouldn’t matter if you’re practising what the diplomas claim, diplomas which hang on the walls of the home. we have ‘engineers’ who never built anything, we have ‘doctors’ who never healed anyone, we have ‘accountants’ who’ve never balanced a check book, we have nurses who don’t like the sick, we have ‘business graduates’ who never went into business and gained profit.
‘GET IT NOW, PAY IT LATER OR NEVER’. – just by observation I see how the kids are given what they want even if it’s beyond reason, beyond budget or beyond reach. we are raising up children who hates to work, and loves to play. children who can’t even fix their own beds, nor clean their own rooms; children who wants the latest gadgets but won’t take care of them.
I remember what my mom, who is now 93 years of age, shared to me about her hard working parents. they labored and they did it with dignity just to raise 11 children. my lolo or grandpa was an entrepreneur who gave business to farmers and gave them ample time to pay back their debts to him. he gave people dignity. he didn’t look down on the ‘uneducated’ masa but instead allowed them to rise up and be a fruitful person in society.
Where are the fathers of our nation? where are those who will encourage ‘hard work’, moral integrity, and productivity in labor? my mother’s hero is her father. she saw his heart and his dream and she herself dreamt big. She finished education and law and she worked hard just to send her 7 children to school in the best universities of our choice. my father who was also a lawyer, died when I was twelve but i saw and remember him as a man who took care of his wife and his children very well. When he died my mom was left to fend for us in all areas of life. she would rather walk home than let the monthly allowances of my siblings studying in Manila arrive late. She is a real life heroine. So when i hear of mothers selling their own children to make money that rends my heart.
Where has our dignity as a nation gone to? Why does it not bother our law makers enough to implement justice and to alleviate poverty? Why are we always out to impress outwardly with grand productions but yet, when we cruise along the streets we see people sleeping on cardboards in sidewalks, we see children roaming the streets hungry, some taking rugby to alleviate hunger, some abused sexually and are numbed to the core.
Philippines, you are made for greatness. Filipinos, wake up. Leaders, be the fathers of our nation. lead us to greatness and do not waste our natural and human resources by having a ‘What’s in it for me’ mentality.
As President Kennedy once said, DO NOT THINK ‘WHAT CAN MY COUNTRY DO FOR ME?’ INSTEAD… FILIPINO LEADERS PLEASE SAY: WHAT CAN I DO FOR MY COUNTRY?
To all the unsung heroes of our nation: the ‘cargadors’ in the pier who are ekking it out just to provide for their families, the employees who are giving excellent work but never gets paid enough, the mothers and fathers who are teaching their children right moral standards and the value of hard work, I SALUTE YOU! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK FOR IN DUE SEASON, YOUR FRUITS WILL MAKE WAY FOR A GREAT PHILIPPINES. GOD BLESS YOU!

-> just one of the wonderful beaches in the Phils.
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i hope this touches you too…
-walsy
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